slowly climbing out of my self-induced proverbial gutter

23/03/2009

all my hard, sober work in these last eight months (yes, it’s been that long) is starting to pay off. it’s sad for me to think that for the last 20 years, give or take some extended pockets of sobriety, i was going out every night drinking and such (’and such’= drugs). it’s where i got my love from. i got it from other sad sack barflies who lit up after the third drink. we shared a common problem…life. when we drank together everything and everyone on the outside could screw off as far as we were concerned. we were trying to live life on our terms. and when we were drinking it was our terms. we drank when we wanted to, drowning our sorrows or heightening our joys. we were in control, or so we thought. when i was hung over, nothing worked better than a little hair of the dog. if i got plastered on wine the night before, a nice spicy bloody mary (or five) in the morning was just what the doctor ordered. i’ve been known to shower gripping a a rolling rock. in an attempt to detox occassionally, i would take hot epsom salt baths with a beer in one hand and my glass pot pipe in the other. the toxins were going in as they were being sweated out. there was a stretch of time where i needed to drink a bottle of wine to ’steady my nerves’…before noon! i don’t know how many sunrises i have witnessed, and dreaded. the birds chirping were not feathered angels heralding in a fresh new day, but tiny demonic peckers mocking me with their shrill tweets and twirps. shut the fuck up!!! things are different lately. now, i take extreme pleasure in the simple things in life. i love the fact that I DON’T HAVE TO DRINK. cause let me tell you, i had to before. and then there’s this blog. you don’t know how therapeutic it has been. i get my love here now. and my creativity is creeping back. i’m actually motivated to do more than just sit on my couch watching marathons of ‘cheaters.’ i really do love that show. probably cause i’ve been on both sides of that nasty fence. anyhow, my point is, that those little webisodes i did that were inspired by my alcohol monitoring ankle bracelet (which people think is house arrest) have been well received. firstly, they (the folks at atom.com) want me to make five more. weee! and secondly, they’ve been getting great reviews. if you want, you can read article #1 and article #2. there are many other articles out there, all of them positive. and what i love is that the people writing the reviews kinda don’t know what’s real and what’s staged. and if you know me at all, that’s what i’m all about! andy kaufman style. and if you want to see HOUSE ARREST WITH ANDY DICK, go to atom.com. there are five webisodes. love you guys!

There are 105 comments in this article:

  1. 03/23/2009Donna Green-Israel:

    Hi Andy,
    What a honey you are. We loved watching you being “reborn” on Sober House. We were cheering you on from our couch and we’re so so so glad to see that in 8 months you’re still happily on that wagon of hope! Addiction is no stranger to me…secondhandedly…my husband was a herion/opiate addict for years and year, he got clean…but suffered seizures as a result of being pretty much an end-stage user. Sadly, he had a seizure and drown in our hot tub at home (I was 8 months pregnant with our 2nd child). So in the end…drugs did take his life and my two young sons will know that you either quit or die…no matter what and I’m SO glad you chose to quit. ALL OUR BEST LOVE AND WISHES to you! (and good for your son to be so forgiving, he’s got your heart).

  2. 03/23/2009mona:

    your life was just like an episode of Intervention… glad you got out of it man

  3. 03/23/2009Dolly:

    Who has’nt been there nowadays. Congrats on your sobriety. I loved you then and I love you now <3
    Keep being the funny man that you are.
    Always a fan of yours~Dolly

  4. 03/23/2009Ashley:

    I am SO glad House Arrest with Andy Dick has been embraced!! It should be, it’s brilliant.

    I am also very happy to hear that this blog is a source of love for you - you deserve it!!

    I can’t wait to see more happiness for you and therefore more documented Genius moments with you. And hey, if you have a late night of, I don’t know, playing POKER or something, you may still think the birds are annoying in the morning ;)

  5. 03/23/2009LittleUmgowa:

    Great post.
    Birds have always annoyed the hell out of me! Twittering away….arrgh. I like to sleep in, dammit!
    House Arrest With Andy Dick is awesome. It’s happy news that the powers that be want to sign on for more!
    We love you too, Andy!
    ~LU

  6. 03/23/2009jenwaite76:

    Perty words in perty order (that’s my standby good writing compliment). I’m glad you’re doing well. I’ve always been a fan. Your talent has always been palpable, unfortunately that often comes with some boutworthy demons. You’re not the first and unfortunately won’t be the last. I’d say Dr. Drew has the most secure job in California. Rambling. Anywhoo, best wishes.

  7. 03/23/2009shera:

    this is an awesome post, andy! i watched you on sober house, and of everyone there, it seemed like rehab really “clicked” with you this time. how amazing. and i have complete faith that you’ll make it. there really is so much to enjoy in life, and now you get to experience that… it must feel like a whole new world. i just wanted you to know that you inspire people everywhere, keep doing what you’re doing, and take joy in knowing you have TONS of people who support you.

  8. 03/23/2009jape:

    Hey Andy,
    Nice thoughts and I enjoyed you on the show. I have about the same time sober as you. Drugs and alcohol led to me losing my license to practice medicine. We can let what we’ve lost kill us or we can resolve to make the rest of our lives great. Just wanted to say kudos and keep it up. You’re funnier sober.

  9. 03/23/2009Marci:

    I have to say that I am totally PROUD of you! I never really “got” your humor and I didn’t really know what all the hype about you was all about. But the minute you came into the cast of Sober House, I fell in love with you. We walked in there like a damaged little birdie but you walked out a strong eagle. I loved that you could cry and I loved that you apologized to your friends. I am sorry that the show is done because I can’t keep up with you all but I am glad to see that life is going well for you and that means life will go well with you and your son as well. Good Luck and keep up the good work. If you ever need a “motherly” hug come on by and I will have one ready for you!!
    Hugs,
    marci

  10. 03/23/2009Melanie:

    wow….you nailed it perfectly. Isn’t it strange all the hurt and pain we sometimes drink to escape it, comes back ten fold as we are coming down and all alone in our room.

  11. 03/23/2009hannahjenny:

    I am so glad you are doing well. I watched Sober House and have been rooting for you. You have such a good heart and seem to really care about others. Keep going!!

  12. 03/23/2009Kristina:

    “i don’t know how many sunrises i have witnessed, and dreaded.”

    wow andy, i have felt the same exact way before..and i really thought that no one else could possibly know how it feels. like you, i am also starting to enjoy the simple things in life. it’s a beautiful feeling (i am crying now lol) to wake up every morning and be thankful to be alive, to want to go out there and do something besides self-destructing. i love you andy, and i pray for only the best and most positive things in life for you, b/c you are a wonderful person and you deserve it. god bless.

  13. 03/23/2009BrianVimX:

    Good to hear Andy! Keep it up man!

  14. 03/23/2009Phillip Kaplan:

    When you decide to start drinking again, let me know. I’ll buy the first round.

  15. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    i’m so sorry for your loss. yeah, drinking and drugs can kill us in the sneakiest of ways. my friends always said i would die by being so drunk that someone would just flat out kill me for doing something stupid. or i’d kill myself in some drunken fall or other accident.

  16. 03/23/2009Holly:

    Andy…I am so stinkin’ proud of you.

    I am also proud of myself. It has been 3 days now. Today I told all of my friends and my husband that I am sober and will stay that way. The reactions were varied, but all supportive in the end.

    Something you wrote today really struck a chord with me too - the relief in knowing that I DON’T HAVE TO DRINK. I feel such a sense of clarity and peace in my decision. I see so much of what I am going trough right now it your past entries and I take comfort in knowing that you are still sober. Maybe I will be too. Love ya.

  17. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    hey, you! funny!

  18. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    holly, you are kicking soooo much ass! inspiring.

  19. 03/23/2009Dorothy Blanton:

    It’s really great to see you saying things like that you “DON’T HAVE TO DRINK”. You’re doing so great Andy. Keep it up we are all so very proud of you!!

  20. 03/23/2009Brynn:

    Hi Andy. I was touched by your story on Sober House. You have such a big heart. My husband is a recovering alcoholic and the show helped me understand the disease better. I’m following you on Twitter. Love your blog. So glad to hear you’re 8 months sober and counting. Best of luck to you.

  21. 03/23/2009Kelsey:

    You said that you wanted to help at least one person, and you just might have done that…. Thanks.

  22. 03/23/2009Sharon:

    Hey Andy,
    Sharon here in Seattle. Wow, I really had no idea your addiction was so terribly out of control. How sad. I’m so sorry that 20 years of your life were in such dispair. But look at you now - Sober 8 months! I’m happy for you, happy for your family and happy for us, your fans who will have your awesome wittiness. That never fails to make me laugh. Just work them steps honey! Much love!
    Sharon

  23. 03/23/2009Karin:

    I’ve watched you on Sober House, guess the whole Universe has & suddenly, it dawned on me. I really really liked you. Prior to that show, I found you so obnoxious and wrapped up in 100 mph ego. (Sorry to even hear those words come from me, but they are true). Right up until the final tears in your eyes and the hopes that everyone really will stay in touch, I was your biggest champion. Your son kept many things inside, as someone his age, with cameras all over probably would. But since that time, I hope you have shared many intimate dialogues and hugs.Whoever is not for your higher good at this time needs to be cut loose. Easier to say than do, but believe me, it is easier to walk a path with no stickers on it, waiting to hurt you unexpectedly. So much love in my heart surrounding you…. Try to drop a line when possible. My money’s on you!!!!

  24. 03/23/2009mm:

    Andy,
    I am thrilled that you have made it to eight months! That is fantastic. Actually, fantastic does not begin to describe it. Watched you on Sober House and was ever so pleasantly surprised to see the “new you” and not that portrayed by TMZ and others. Keep us posted.

  25. 03/23/2009Glenn:

    Great work andy, ever since I saw your work in Newsradio I’ve been a follower of you. I’ve been through times when I wanted to just drown in alcohol cos I couldnt handle life. I know slightly what you’ve been through and you are stronger than many for keep on holding out.

    With much respect from Norway.

  26. 03/23/2009Emily:

    Way to go Andy - and I know it has been a long way, but oh so worth it. You have a brilliant mind. Now that you are sober people can really see and appreciate your genius without the horrible drug induced haze.

    You have no idea the thousands of people who are pulling for you . It is a shame that we can’t carry some of your load for you, but know that your hard work is an inspiration for others.

    Peace and love,

  27. 03/23/2009susan:

    You simply ROCK… Nothing better than seeing a good man live a good life and reap the reward! Love it! Good luck to you Andy!

  28. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    you do help just by listening to me… god bless.

  29. 03/23/2009Julia:

    Baby, you write beautifully. You should do an autobiography (for serious)!

  30. 03/23/2009Barbara:

    Hey Andy

    First let me tell you congrats on your 8 months of sobriety. I saw you at your worst and I felt your pain. I hoped that you could pull yourself out of it. Not all of us can. I am so happy for you!!!!!!! You have important work to do. Providing us with our daily laughs or just knowing that you are recovering will help more people than you will ever know. I could not be more proud of you for I know how hard it is. I am 4yrs and 8 months sober. Alcohol and Cocaine almost took me but I also had it in me to break free just as you did. I was thinking about having a glass of wine this summer until I heard your son talking about a relapse you had. I won’t have that one glass of wine now. Thank you for that. Things are going to get better and better for you. You’re one of the good guys!!! Take Care of your special self.

  31. 03/23/2009_kAZ(z):

    Hey Andy,
    It’s me again. I’ve been going through a lot of stuff right now, and reading about your new positive outlook on life is really inspiring me. Keep up the good work, and keep in touch. I sent you a friend request on myspace and an email. Try to find me on there.

    Keep on keepin’ on!

    _kAZ(z)

  32. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    i am. they’ve been asking me to write one for ten years or more. but i thought that meant my life was in it’s final chapter. now, i realize i could have written a few books by now. i’ll keep you posted…

  33. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    thanks, barbara. and i’ll tell my son…

  34. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    you’re doing great. i will look for you. i go on my blog far more than all the other ’sites.’

  35. 03/23/2009_kAZ(z):

    Thanks. That really means a lot to me. It’s really nice to hear how well your doing. I’ve had some bad experiences with posting personal info on public sites like this though, I hope you can find me else where. But, until then me and the rest of the family are pulling for you!

    With much love,
    _kAZ(z)

  36. 03/23/2009Betsy LaBass:

    Dear Andy,
    I watched you on Sober House and fell in love with you. Before that I always thought you were just a crazy lunatic. I was worried about you after you left so I found your blog and am so happy to find out that you are doing so well. Keep up the good work. We are all pulling for you and love you very much!

    Take care my friend.
    Betsy

    p.s. your story give me hope for my daughter who is a beautiful 27 year old alcoholic. Please keep her in your prayers.

  37. 03/23/2009jeffry:

    brotherman congrats on your ongoing sobriety. keep up the good work! the shows this week were awesome!!!!!!!

  38. 03/23/2009Shelby (aka She-Ra):

    Hey you…ok, I have to say, I sent you an email that someone sent to me. That hit me about as much as your post today did. Very surreal my friend, very surreal. I love you for it. You say what soo many of us think, and do…or attempt to do day in day out. I am a glutten for punishment as some would say, so be it…challenges maybe…you however, I have come to love more and more each day…I’ve admired you for you since day one…being the perfect little housewife, never doing a drug one, I could do no wrong…until one day…then I lost it all in a short 8 months…32 years gone…greatest lesson I could have ever learned, let alone teach my children…and here we are together…You get more ramblings daily that I can even imagine…so there is my two cents for the day…6 days and counting until I get to see you. I don’t have much to hang on to, but I’m hanging on to that like no other…you are the bestest love!!

  39. 03/23/2009Stephanie:

    Dear Andy,

    It really warmed my heart to read that blog. And maybe I do comment to much and maybe I do spend lots of time watching old clips of you and episodes of Newsradio. But I have to tell you something. Last week I had to bury a friend of mine because he OD on drugs. I wish that he would have seen the light you have seen. I wish he would have thought birds where angels instead of just a reminder that he wasted another day. But as much as I feel like a geeky fool spilling this out on your blog. His death made me want to crawl back to the darkness. I wanted to drink pick up that J and take the pills. I wanted to so bad I didnt want to face that. So I looked for something to do. And I thought hrm maybe andy dick has a website. Like I have mentioned before I frequently come and stay for a little while on this site because it makes me laugh so much. And to me laughter smashes the grieving soul. Laughter that your clips, movies, and most recently web casts, and blogs have delivered me. I might sound lame but at this point I dont really care. I just want you to know that your fans your real fans will be here. Waiting for those creative juices to flow. Waiting to see the next thing. And ready to show you love when you need it. =)
    I am glad I didnt go back into my dark hole. And I am glad you are back. I am glad that you are here making people laugh again. I am glad that most of all, you are happy with what you have accomplished. And I am glad that you have made a place for your fans to come and tell you how much you really are adored.

    If I ever do get to make one of your shows. (I doubt you get to Michigan much) I want to give you like the biggest hug ever! And I mean this in the least stalker of ways. If at any point in life I could repay the joy and happiness you have given to me over the last few weeks I totally would.

    You are one of a kind Andy Dick. And I can not wait to see what you come up with next. I will be here waiting.

    Best Wishes,
    Stephanie

  40. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    thanks, my brother. (jeff dick is really my brother, people) love you. hope you had fun.

  41. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    you are the best. i have nightmare stories of drinking in michigan, getting stranded in the snow cause i got myself and my band thrown out of a cab…but i don’t think i’m 86′d yet. maybe i’ll see you…

  42. 03/23/2009Miranda:

    An autobiography?! YES! That would rock.
    And you are inspiring to others by just being you.

    Yay for 8 months! Thats awesome.
    You can always do another ventriloquist talent show like you did on Newsradio!! HAHA!! Classic.

  43. 03/23/2009amanda:

    the part about the birds reminded me of the phish song brian & robert haha. but seriously, that was so great to read. sobriety is such an amazing thing. as the daughter of a recovering alcoholic and a recovering addict myself, i can’t even begin to tell you how important it is for you and your family, but you know that :) stay fucking sober man life really is so beautiful.

  44. 03/23/2009Jayme:

    andddyyy

    i use to drink in the shower too
    good way to start the morning

    i once woke up to some friends trying to bust the bathroom door down
    because i fell asleep in the bathtub surrounded by floating beer cans

    anyways, 12 days sober today!

    thank you for the constant encouragement

  45. 03/23/2009stephy in seattle:

    Andy,
    reading this stuff from you touches me so much! I’m so happy for you and so glad that you’re liking the simple stuff, and you don’t dread sunrises anymore. It’s the little stuff like that. And Cheaters.
    Do you remember the episode where the guy cheating was caught in a motel room with a tranny who was, like, whipping him or something? And the tranny told Joey “Don’t look at me. You just have an annoying face. Your face is annoying.” Joey said “This is the face I was born with.” Soooo funny to me.
    Love ya and love your blog!
    xoxoxo
    stephy

  46. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    that was a funny episode. but i have to admit, i wasn’t feeling well when we shot that episode. i remember. i was hungover. i was really jittery, but in that instance, it worked for the scene…

  47. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    you’re doing great!!!! 12 is a good number…

  48. 03/23/2009sober andy:

    joey is so funny. and he is a cool, sweet guy. did you see him on HOUSE ARREST WITH ANDY DICK? he was acting, but people thought he was reacting genuinely (the sign of good acting).

  49. 03/24/2009Holly:

    So Andy…..is it a bad idea to go to a Dead concert at 1 month of sobriety? I’m thinking that it may be wildly entertaining to be sober at one of those babies. Then again, if I’m sober, they might really suck.

  50. 03/24/2009kitti moon:

    good morning andy (and company). it’s 8:04 a.m. on the 24th….im so happy that i just entered “the world of andy”. that blog entry is definately making me feel sooo much more positive then i was 15 mins ago. i was getting down on myself for not having the strongest willpower when it had come to my sobriety….but today is a new day. i don’t want all my hard work for the past 2 weeks to go out the window cause of my screw up. i want a new life, i want a fresh start. and you are my sole inspiration andrew, thank you.

    xx
    me
    xx

  51. 03/24/2009Toni:

    Hooray for five more eps of House Arrest!! Sooooo worth continuing. Can’t wait.

    Congrats on 8 months sober! Remember this precious time. I think you will look back on it fondly someday. :)

  52. 03/24/2009Lyndsey:

    “I hear it’s more colorful to get twisted in this world, but my mind has too many turns as it is. I pity the fool who need a hit to see the light – and the equally uninspired pious minion who never even considered the option.” -Hunter s. Thompson.

    You’re really blooming into a brilliant being, keep working hard.

    xo

  53. 03/24/2009amber:

    Well Andy,

    I am very glad that you are continuing to stay sober and not having to resort to alcohol to solve your problems. It’s better to stay alert with everything that’s around you then not knowing what is going on and feeling like crap. I hope you have a great day and i hope if you ever checked out my blogs that some either placed a smile on your face or a laugh. if you ever want to email me, please do. and I wish you luck on your sobriety and please wish me luck at becoming a published author and staying sober forever as well.

    Your author friend/fan
    Amber

  54. 03/24/2009Jennifer Young:

    After seeing you on Sober House, I just wanted to take a minute and offer you some words of encouragement. I think you are an awesome person with a big heart. I pray the best for you in your sobriety AND your life. God Bless!

    Jennifer

  55. 03/24/2009Ashley:

    How’s Monday looking for you as far as Mr. Show night?

  56. 03/24/2009LeeAnna:

    Thanks for making me laugh. I love the House Arrest gigs. Love the Dr. Drew one. Very funny stuff. Keep it real and keep it going. Even if you pissed away some years, it’s time to rise again and show off your talents. Maybe this will bring you and your son closer. He deserves it and so do you! ROCK ON!

  57. 03/24/2009Karen:

    I have enjoyed you since The Ben Stiller Show. Big fan of your work but never of your antics. I loved seeing you in Sober House. You were so open and wise. Congratulations on your sobriety!

  58. 03/24/2009RWgirl:

    Andy,
    I’m so happy you are doing well. It always makes me sad to see good people who have such a terrible disease. It seems like the tabloids only like to talk about people’s downfalls. I like seeing people get better and stay well (I wish people never had to struggle to begin with).

    Your blog makes me so happy. I love reading it.

  59. 03/24/2009Stephanie:

    Andy,

    First of all thanks for saying I am great that made my day and like I said you are also great. We should start a great people club.

    Anyway I was sitting at a friends house playing womens wrestling on PS2 and we go to talking about you. My friend said you where in an episode of Startrek Voyager where you played a hologram docter. He says you where “funny as shit” and “Hell yeah he was awesome” as a Treckie (yes I am a hot girl Trekie) and a hudge fan of yours. I have to know if this is true.

    Love
    Stephanie
    AKA Coconut Monkey Bank….god I love that!

  60. 03/24/2009Kristin:

    dude I love the fact that I am no longer a slave to booze.

    i dont need to stop everything to go to the liquor store before it closes… I dont have to worry if i will be hungover the next day.. i dont have to worry about making sure i have had enough to drink.. i dont have to worry if where ever i am going to has booze.. you know?

    THAT is ultimately why I stopped drinking. i was sick of being a slave to it.

    xoxo
    Kristin

  61. 03/24/2009Nate Fakes:

    Keep it up, Andy! I think sometimes I go too nuts with booze. Well - I’m not “horrible” at drinking. Not everyday or anything. Anyhow, I just got done with a four-day frenzi with my friends in town, and we were waking up in the morning sockin’ down the beers. And I’m a cartoonist, so today I’m shaky as ever and it’s not easy to draw. What I’m getting at is it’s nice to read your blog and figure out if I need to quit altogether or just, well - take it easy on the stuff!

  62. 03/24/2009Brian S:

    Andy…It seems your on the right track…If your working on a comeback keep up the great job.I hope anything you plan on turns out positive for you…Congratulations on your sobriety.I know one of you dick’s..I’m a friend of your brother.I met him years ago when we drove taxi’s up here in the armpit of America (Connecticut) ..Tell that crazy fool to call me sometime lol j/k we talk all the time..Sounds like ya’ll had a good time this weekend and your show went real well…It will be great to see ya back in the spotlight in a good way…Good luck Andy and stay on track..We would love to see you at Foxwoods or Mohegan Sun casino’s,Without those two places there wouldn’t be much else to do around here lol… If you make it up this way i want to be the first to know ok.Have a great day Andy…Brian from Rotton Groton

  63. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    i didn’t go out to bars or hang out with ‘lower companions’ for months. since then, some of those old worms have squirmed back into my life, some of them under the guise of wanting to get sober like me. if you do go, i highly recommend going with some sober people that you look up to. or at least one other sober person. and if you get even a little squirrelly, leave. i think you are right though, the show is probably gonna suck sober, for so many reasons. good luck, and keep us posted…

  64. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    you’re welcome. and thank you! and by ‘company’ i hope you mean all the other people that frequent here. cause on my end, it’s only me. no assistant, manager, publicist, brother, etc. i do this blog solo. after all, no one can get sober for me (wouldn’t that be nice).

  65. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    yes, it’s true. and the some of my star trek episode is posted on an earlier blog here…

  66. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    definitely take it easy on the stuff, if it’s already affecting your work. and keep a watchful eye on it, cause it’s a sneaky bastard. it will creep in so slow and under the radar that the next thing you know, there’s an intervention with your name on it. it’s best to recognize it yourself.

  67. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    will do. jeff and i are both from groton, you probably know.

  68. 03/24/2009Lelly:

    Andy, I’m so glad you stopped before your life was taken unnecessarily. Life is a gift and addictions can turn it into a preview of hell. They take away money, reputation, happiness and health. I had a friend who liked pushing the envelope…he got into drinking, drugs, and all kinds of sex and died suddenly when he was only 21. I had always thought it was just a phase and he’d settle down when he got a little older, but he never got that chance. I know that if you write a book you’ll be able to help a lot of people. Love you <3 (My funny honey sunny bunny with tons of money…honey bunny…hahaha ok, now you know I love Newsradio)

  69. 03/24/2009Brian S:

    Yea i do know..Hope your time here was cool for ya….Andy those 5 skits are comical…I saw the humor in all of them…If they want 5 more give um to them.. lol..You have a great talent Andy and some good people around and beside you, With the same talent and idea’s…I cant wait to see what you and them will come up with for 09..You started at the bottom and worked your way up in your career…So you fell down… Now there’s only one way to go and your on your way there brotha…Thanks for the reply….Oh and i thought the best part of those skits was the back stage curtain..that shiaaaaat was funny…Till next time…Brian

  70. 03/24/2009Holly:

    Andy, do you actually get those pollywog emails, or is it one of your minions? :0)

  71. 03/24/2009Scott W:

    I am loving it so much that you are enjoying your sober life. When we stop putting alcohol or other mind altering stuff in us we change. A sober life is limitless. We can do what we want and succeed!

    Work the steps, clean house and keep coming back!

  72. 03/24/2009Ryan:

    You’re great Andy. Keep up the good work my man. I have a list of my top 10 entertainers/actors in the world and you’re right up there.

  73. 03/24/2009Suzanne:

    hey andy! watched both of your shows in miami, live and free here on your blog, lots of fun. the chat was quite entertaining too.
    you sound great. you really are sober andy now. not to say don’t be cautious anymore but you are sounding more like sober andy and not like andy who should stay sober. if that makes any sense.
    i’m glad i realized rolling rock isn’t my good lil buddy like he claimed to be.
    email me back soon about Housewife in Hollywood Talks with Andy Dick. ;) much love.
    Suzanne

  74. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    i get them, but i don’t look at them too often. there are just too many. hundreds. maybe thousands. that’s why i started this blog.

  75. 03/24/2009Karin aka Karmapudding:

    I’ve been a pot head forever… Now that I’ve had to close my store of 15 years (economy ate me up & spit me out) I’ve been job hunting. I had to give up the weed for the pee test I knew was coming. So far no job, still trying my best, but I haven’t had any weed in 67 days. I don’t drink or take pills, so my joint was my way to just relax at day’s end & mellow out. Now, without pot, I do beadwork, am more active, and get great comfort from your blog. By Friday, I’ll find out if I got the job in the Urological Dept. at the hospital…. sure to give a pee test in Urology…dontcha think?? Ha ha ha ha ha. Have a peaceful night my friend.

  76. 03/24/2009sober andy:

    things are looking up for both of us. you have yourself a peaceful night as well.

  77. 03/24/2009Talkingship Podcast:

    Andy,
    Thank you for sharing this blog with the world. It is important for other people who are suffering with the same things to have a champion to look up to. That might seem like a bit more pressure on your shoulders than you want, and fame has a way of thrusting you into prominent positions in stranger’s lives that you never intended let alone desired. However, remember that we have watched you fall and rise again, and THAT is why you are our champion. You are human: flawed and beautiful for it. Continue down this road, and know that there are thousands upon thousands of us there to help carry you on when you need it the most.
    All the best wishes,
    Jitterbug

  78. 03/25/2009Sarah:

    I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don’t know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.

    Sarah

    http://grillsblog.com

  79. 03/25/2009jenie:

    Its wonderful to hear your thoughts..Sometimes i wonder how it would sound a daily blog of an alcholic and a sober person. I grew up in an alcoholic family, it wasn’t fun, it hurt more than most will ever know.
    But seeing people like you overcoming the odds makes me so grateful for the help that is offered out there.
    I think your doing amazing, and I hope and pray that someone in trouble will come across you and see that they too can be happy and not drink!

    Your the best, sharing your thoughts helps everyone not just you!

    xoxo!

  80. 03/25/2009Glenda:

    Andy:
    For some reason I became caught up watching Celebrity Rehab and then, of course, moved on to Sober House. Your entrance into that mix could have been so disruptive and harmful, but you folded your wings into an humble heart and came into the house ready, truly ready. It was amazing and gratifying to watch. Can’t really explain why this show captivated me–there are no addiction issues in my family–but I came to care about each of those people and wished them well and happy lives.

    This morning I googled the names of each of the cast members to see if there were updates since the show and found this site. I’ve been a fan since Newsradio and continue to be a fan of your spirit, your hopefulness, your talent and your honesty.

    I wish you peace and health and healing with your family and friends. Thank you for sharing your pain so that others can find the way.

  81. 03/25/2009kim halliburton-carter:

    andy: you inspire in my own struggle. i am close to your age & have struggled for 35 years off & on, mostly on. i’ve never figured out why i have self medicated, but watching you on the rehab show has inspired me. it gets to the point where you are sick & tired of being sick & tired. i’m working on myself everyday, but knowing there’s someone in the same boat who is doing well really helps me. thanks & have always loved your work!

  82. 03/25/2009Dianne:

    so great to get your inspiration back ! it was always there — glazed over. I’m enjoying this PLUS tonight I get to see Pauly’s new documentary “Adopted” — excited to see it — the blog is amazing for you - perfect way to journal yourself through recovery! you going to meetings as well ?

  83. 03/25/2009Jessica:

    Congratulations on eight months. That is absolutely amazing! We are all cheering for you! Keep up the amazing work. Much love!

  84. 03/25/2009joseph:

    watched you being reborn on sober house,glad to here that you are doing well.been a fan of yours for along time.we are all counting on you,cant imagine a world without andy dick in it.

  85. 03/25/2009Anthony:

    Loving the new works!!!
    ….and the new you!!!!

  86. 03/25/2009Pam Carr:

    Andy, dude, I have been a fan for years, but after watching you on Rehab, I am so in love with you!!! I mean, you have the biggest heart, and kinda being the same, I know what you went through! Had my own demons in my life, and was always trying to cover up hurt! You are so freaking hilarious, and I am so proud of you! That show helps so many people, and I thank you for putting yourself out there!!!! Hang in there man, don’t ever give up on yourself!!! I love ya man!!!!! Pam

  87. 03/25/2009Tina T.:

    Hi Andy,
    I was happy/sad to see you have to go throught this, but it was truly needed. I have ALWAYS been a fan and like many I had no idea of your pain. It is a tough life that most celebs live and most of us, again have no idea. I was glad that you decided to seek that help that you needed. Your son loves you and wants you to be a father. It would be such a shame to loose you to this illness. I know you live for laughs, most comedians do, but if you NEVER step on stage again, you have to know that you are ALWAYS a star to your son. Much Love to you and Stay Strong. God Bless

  88. 03/25/2009Eleanor:

    Andy…

    My Dad is an alcoholic….he’s 65 and at this point, I don’t know if there is any hope for him. I’m glad that you’re making the effort (and I’m sure it’s a daily thing) to be sober. Can’t really hang around with the enablers though…that’s the tough part of Hollywood.

    *sends mentally strong vibes*

    Eleanor

  89. 03/26/2009Danielle:

    Andy,
    I too saw you on “Sober House” and was so awestruck by your kind and gentle nature. My husband is a recovering alcoholic as well - 22 months clean and sober and if he can do it, anyone can! I’m rooting for you Andy - take it day by day. Keep making those amends - they clean the soul. “House Arrest” is hilarious - especially the one with Dr. Drew - priceless. Are you going to be able to have anyone that was with you from “Sober House” on? Did any of you guys keep in touch?

    Love you, Andy
    Sobriety first…..

  90. 03/26/2009April Orta:

    Good for you! I am so glad that you are enjoying your sober life, and learning how to live bigger and better without the alcohol! I watched you on Sober House and you were my favorite.

    April
    Michigan

  91. 03/26/2009downtowntrash:

    dear andy.. i’ve always wanted to meet you and had a couple of opportunities BUT I was warned not to cause you.. well, were a dick. BUT I think if I see you I’ll take a chance cause you’re super talented and talent is hot… be well.

  92. 03/26/2009sober andy:

    i always like meeting new people. and i don’t bite (when i’m sober). also, who is terra? i went to that website terranaomi.com…what a talent!

  93. 03/26/2009Jayme:

    andy,
    today has been a rough day. i’ve stayed inside all day sleeping because i know if i go out i’m going straight to the liquor store.when any little problem arises, my basic instinct is to run to alcohol. it has been a day full of more roadblocks than i’ve had in the last two weeks of sobriety combined. it’s becoming lonely, especially when all your friends are at the bar and the rest of them want little to nothing to do with you. i’m very distraught. does it get better? do you have any advice. please keep my in your thoughts.
    thanks man.

    and i hope you feel better!

  94. 03/26/2009sober andy:

    i know how you feel, and you have to know that it gets way better. maybe i should do a live feed tonight so we can all be depressed together. i’m so sick. i’m gonna talk to rick about setting it up now.

  95. 03/26/2009stephy in seattle:

    I finally saw the Joey Greco episode. It was amazing! Even from the very first when he stuck his nose out of the curtain! That was all so good, I love it and I’m so glad Comedy Central ordered more episodes. Even though the backstage is a little tight.
    nub,
    stephy

  96. 03/27/2009Jordan:

    So proud of you. Seems you have grown so much and matured in such an awsome way. :)

  97. 03/27/2009map118-twitter:

    Andy,
    Congrats on your 8 months! It is quite an accomplishment. I hang on to the image of myself caught in a loop of never really attaining that high or feeling that good and not being able to step out of it (put it down). You have been given a gift. Keep your foundation strong and surround yourself with winners. Remember to keep it in the day.
    Marci

  98. 03/27/2009The Hussy Housewife:

    Good for you Andy to rediscover yourself. Living life sober is much different when you can’t numb the pain. I wish I could tell you I tell you understand, but I don’t have a highly addictive personality. Blogger in my therapy to..and brings out lots of creativity…so good luck on writing!

    Well, maybe I do when old aunt flow comes around and I break out of my sugar rehab, and go on a 7 day binder..relapse on raw cookie dough and Carmel popcorn. Is that the same thing? I try to block out my inner skinny bitch that tells me that I shouldn’t eat this crap..that rehab is for quitters.

    Evil female whore-moans!

  99. 03/27/2009♥Angel♥:

    Kudos!

    I am so proud of you. I’ve seen people repeatedly give up and keep on drinking. You are def a mentally strong individual and you are REAL. That’s why people love you~!

  100. 03/27/2009Evan Wendt:

    Hey Andy I heard you talking about sobriety with Adam Carolla on his podcast and just wanted to say “way to go buddy!” Your story is an inspiration to a newly sobered (~30) 23 year old dude such as myself. Keep moving forward in your creativity, happiness, and commitment to sobriety andy!

  101. 03/29/2009Joanna:

    Andy,
    I just wanted you to know that I’m totally rooting for you in your sobriety. Watching you on Sober House made me see what an amazing person you are. You are sensitive and sweet and so real. Thank you for going on the show and being the real you. Seeing the human side of celebrity is amazing. Hang in there, buddy. You are doing so great! I believe that you are strong enough to win this battle. And the people in your life will thank you for it. And at the end of it all, you will have such an amazing respect for yourself at the mountains you have climbed. You are a badass!!
    -Joanna

  102. 04/5/2009Melinda:

    I love you, Andy! Always have….you are so talented and hilarious. I am so glad you are loving life now—such a great blog to read. Keep it up—I am rooting for you!

  103. 04/5/2009ben:

    hi andy.
    i’m glad i stumbled on this blog!
    i have been a fan of yours since the Ben Stiller Show.
    over the past couple years, i saw you in less movies/shows and on more tabloid shows.
    i really hate to admit that i was insanely annoyed by you. i know tons of people who have successfully beat addiction. i still have to remind myself that it’s the disease i’m fed up with, not the person being afflicted. i was reminded of that when i saw you on Sober House. I certainly don’t need to tell you that you’re a totally different person sober. I’m excited to see that you’re still clean and working for it. that’s really great and commendable. my long term girlfriend is a recovering adict, and i know firsthand how much proactive work it takes. i applaud you for putting in that work. it looks like it’s paying off. your House Arrest show is fucking great. please keep up the good work and stay safe and healthy.

  104. 04/14/2009Sheila:

    Just found this post or would have commented earlier.

    YOU were absolutely amazing on Dr. Drew’s Sober House.
    I was really cheering you on and happy for how well you were
    doing.

    I am also happy that no one will have to take care of you
    now the way I have to take care of my brother. He’s 51
    with alcohol dementia. It’s like Alzheimer’s only “self
    inflicted”. It’s literally killing him and he still wants to
    drink!

    Thank God you are doing so well.

    Keep up the great work!

  105. 04/17/2009Lynn:

    Sweet Andy. You’re simply amazing. Less because you’re perfect & more because you embrace the the fact that you’re probably not. Two main ingredients in the recipe for survival.
    Ya know, it’s super easy to forget exactly how necessary it is to feel loved. How much we truly need one another. Friendship. Companionship. Universal human essentials.
    Seems so simple…yet so fucking complicated. All so similar…yet so fucking different. And crazy??? You’d better believe it. Every single last one of us.
    That shit that comes in a bottle/vial…? Synthetic love. Yum. Who could resist?
    It’s SO easy! And you feel totally awesome. Great!!! Good!! Ok!? Until…oops! You’re not. Dead? At least on the inside. How the fuck did this happen?
    Well, welcome to the world, baby! You’re back! Alive. As fabulous as ever & totally over yourself. You seem soooo ready. Some days are tough. Ok, lots of ‘em kinda suck. But you know what? Fuck it. Because you’re so totally going to make it this time. I just know it. The world would be a far less exciting place without you.
    Love. Love. Love.

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